This article is designed to give you a little insight into what makes a long-term relationship great, or not so great. It’s meant for any type of relationship!
Sometimes we get into relationships and wonder if we have found the one. The one we want to spend the rest of our life with. The one who we are happy waking up to everyday because we know they will make our live happier.
If these ten signs sound familiar to you and your partner, then congratulations! You are most certainly in a great relationship.
1 – You have great conversations, and it’s never awkward.
This one is probably the most important of all! When you’re both done talking about your days, there’s a comfortable silence between you two that makes you feel at ease. It’s not awkward or uncomfortable when there isn’t any conversation happening because you know your partner is just there for you.
2 – You are always happy to see them.
Even if you had a bad day, seeing your partner makes all the stress melt away. They are always the bright spot in your day, and you can’t help but feel happy around them.
3 – You don’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not.
They accept all of your flaws and quirks, and bring out the best in you. You just feel comfortable around them, no matter who you are or what weird habits they might have.
4 – Your partner makes an effort to know you inside and out.
If there is something they don’t know about you yet, your partner will go above and beyond to find out. They put in extra effort to learn about who you are as a person, and they care enough to let you do the same for them.
5 – You can be completely vulnerable around each other.
It’s not scary letting your guard down with your partner because you know they have your back. You don’t have to worry about them judging you or making fun of you – they genuinely just want to see you happy.
6 – They are always there for you, no matter what.
Whether you’re having a great day or a terrible day, your partner is always there to offer support. They never leave you feeling alone or unsupported.
7 – There is a sense of security in your relationship.
You know you’re always taken care of and your partner would do anything for you. They make sure that you have what you need, and they understand that part of being a good partner is making sacrifices every now and then to keep their loved ones happy.
8 – You bring out the best in each other.
You both push each other to be your absolute best every single day. Neither of you are afraid to set high expectations for their partner because they know that they’re capable of achieving anything.
9 – Your partner isn’t afraid to tell you when you’re wrong, but also knows when to apologize too.
They have no problem calling you out on your mistakes, but they also know when to own up to their own wrongdoings. You can trust that they will always be honest with you – both the good and the bad.
10 – You feel complete when you’re around them.
Even if you’re doing nothing, just being in the same room as your partner makes you feel like you can accomplish anything. You are able to accomplish more together than you would be able to separately, simply because of the positive influence they have on your life.
If you can honestly say that, in most or all of these cases, your partner is amazing and you would never want to be with anybody else, then congratulations! You are in a great relationship. No matter the circumstances; even if things get difficult or they make mistakes. The most important thing is how you feel about yourself when you’re with them, and if it takes a bad relationship to make you feel so confident and happy, then it’s worth staying with. Just remember: there is someone out there who will treat you right!
*Note: These are all very general statements about what makes a great relationship. There is no specific formula for what will make any individual person happy in their relationships. A perfect relationship is one that works for both people involved! Make sure you communicate with your partner about what will make you happy, and don’t be afraid to walk away if you aren’t getting what you need.
Thank you for reading!*
If you’re in a great relationship, you know it. You feel it in every hug, every kiss, and every moment you spend with your partner. They make your life better in every way possible, and you can’t imagine being without them. Share this with someone you think will benefit!
